If your abuser is harassing or threatening you at work, you may want to think about creating a safety plan for your job. A work-place safety plan is a way for you to identify and make changes to your daily routine which may increase your physical safety and emotional well-being.
Consider telling a trusted coworker about your situation. A co-worker may be able to help you by looking out for your abuser and calling the police if the batterer threatens you or harasses you at work. A co-worker may also be able to provide personal support and assistance with locating appropriate resources. Think carefully about who you choose to tell and ask them to respect your right to privacy.
Although there are steps you can take on your own to increase your safety, it may be beneficial to tell your employer or supervisor about your situation. If you do decide to talk to your employer about the abuse, here are some things you may want to consider.
There may be changes you or your employer can make at your job which can improve your safety.
Give some serious thought to how you get to and from work.Particularly,how far the train station, bus stop or parking lot is from your job.
Does your batterer know where you work and how you get there?
If your current form of transportation is risky,consider changes that would make it safer. For Example:
Review the safety of your child care arrangements.
Does your batterer know the location of the child care center?
Consider telling your child's caretaker about the batterer and give them a copy of any orders of protection or custody papers you may have. Be very clear about who and who is not allowed to pick up your child. If possible, consider changing child care providers.